I do not judge anyone at all!

Why should I judge others?

Every person in this world is unique. Whether God wanted him to be that way or whether his upbringing and circumstances shaped him that way. How does it matter to me?

It is this uniqueness in every individual that makes this world an interesting place to live. Just as variety of flowers makes a garden beautiful, world is beautiful for the same reason.

Because we come across so many different people every day, we evolve as a person, our wisdom grows.

Someone is judging our character too.

For the same reason why should I let anyone judge my character.

I am what I am, and I have every reason to explain why I am the way I am.

Give feedback, teach me, coach me, mentor me but do not judge me please.

So, what do I do?

I let my intuition work. Over a period of time, intuitively trust builds and I start liking a person. Reverse is true also.

I give time to time, to take its own course.

I go with the flow wherever my instincts take me.

This way either I get good friends, or I get good experience.

So, in a way, I keep on changing rather than the people whom I have come in contact with. They are living their own journey of life and evolving as per their own experience.

My experience says that likeminded people attract each other. So best way is to focus on myself, keep improving to the level I want another person to be. Automatically people of good standing will find me.

And this has worked so far